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Empowering Women to Fight Unfair Medical Bills with Patient Fairness

By: Shannon Sparks

Women in America face unique challenges when it comes to healthcare costs. Medical debt is a growing issue, and studies show that women are more likely than men to experience financial hardship due to medical bills. From maternity care to reproductive health services, women often bear the brunt of high healthcare costs, unexpected charges, and insurance complexities. A study found that 14.3% of women aged 18-35 who recently gave birth have medical debt exceeding $250, nearly double the rate of their peers who did not recently give birth. Another study revealed that one in eight women carries medical debt, compared to one in eleven men. Despite these financial burdens, less than one-third of women challenge their medical bills, often because they don’t know they can or believe the process is too complicated. Patient Fairness – found online at: http://patientfairness.com – was created to change that, providing women with the tools, knowledge, and confidence to fight back against unfair billing.

Founded by Matt Ungs, a veteran of the health insurance industry, Patient Fairness was designed to give patients power in a system where hospitals, insurance companies, and provider networks often work in ways that financially benefit them at the expense of patients. “I witnessed first-hand in my prior career running health plan provider networks how hospital systems, medical groups, and health insurance plans financially thrived while healthcare prices and insurance costs soared for patients,” says Ungs. “Patients got saddled with unaffordable medical prices and insurance premiums because insurance networks benefited providers and health plans at the expense of patients.” He created Patient Fairness as a way to give patients leverage, using decades of industry knowledge to help individuals dispute unfair bills.

Women, particularly those seeking reproductive healthcare, maternity services, and mental health treatment, are more likely to face billing issues. Maternity care is one of the most expensive healthcare services in the U.S., with costs often exceeding $10,000 for an uncomplicated birth, and surprise bills from out-of-network providers are common. Women also rely more on reproductive health services like birth control, fertility treatments, and gynecological care, yet these services are frequently subjected to inflated costs and coverage limitations. Mental health services pose another challenge, as women are more likely than men to seek mental health care but often struggle with denied claims and high out-of-pocket costs. “Studies indicate that women are more adversely affected by medical bills and debt than men,” Ungs explains. “Incidence of, delays in care due to, anxiety over, and negative mental health impacts from medical debt are all more significant for women. That’s why Patient Fairness is such an important resource.”

Patient Fairness simplifies the process of challenging unfair medical bills. The platform allows users to upload their medical bills and answer a series of questions about the charges, insurance coverage, and the circumstances of their care. From there, the system identifies potential reasons to dispute the bill, such as surprise billing, excessive charges, or services not rendered. If the patient chooses to dispute the bill, Patient Fairness generates a customized dispute letter that is sent directly to the provider, formally notifying them that the bill is in dispute. This formal process is key to success, as it forces the provider to acknowledge the dispute and address the concerns before attempting to collect payment. “Patient Fairness uses a formal dispute process because it helps the patient exercise her rights and emphasizes that she is serious about receiving fair treatment,” Ungs explains. “This gives the patient leverage to get a fair outcome with the medical bill. That’s why we say, ‘When it comes to problem medical bills, don’t ask for mercy. Demand fairness.”

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Unlike other services that negotiate medical bills on behalf of patients, Patient Fairness equips patients with the tools and knowledge to dispute bills themselves, ensuring they are negotiating from a position of strength. This is particularly important for women, who often feel powerless when dealing with medical billing departments and insurance companies. Many patients are unaware that they have the right to challenge a bill, and even when they do, they may lack the confidence to do so effectively. By providing structured support, Patient Fairness helps women take control of their financial well-being. “Less than one-third of women say they have fought a problem medical bill,” says Ungs. “Patient Fairness helps women with the strategies, tools, support, and confidence to mitigate potential barriers to challenging those unfair bills.”

Affordability is another crucial aspect of Patient Fairness’s mission. Many women facing medical debt assume that hiring a billing advocate or attorney is too expensive, leaving them without options. Patient Fairness eliminates this barrier by offering its services at low, fixed fees, making it accessible to women of all income levels. “Patient Fairness serves a very broad swath of patient types and charges low, fixed fees so they are affordable even to those of modest means,” says Ungs. “By making it easy and affordable to challenge problem medical bills, Patient Fairness especially helps lower-income and other disadvantaged segments.” This is particularly important for women from underserved communities who are more likely to be uninsured or underinsured and who often face inflated charges for medical care.

Despite the scale of the medical billing problem, many women remain unaware that they have the right to dispute a bill or that services like Patient Fairness exist to help them. One study found that 25% of patients don’t know they can challenge a problem medical bill, and another 36% don’t know how to go about it or believe the process is too complicated. Patient Fairness aims to change this by increasing awareness and expanding access to its services. “That is a huge opportunity for us,” says Ungs. “Patient Fairness’s focus is to get the word out to the public that there is an easy and affordable service to help patients challenge problem medical bills.” The company serves patients in all 50 states and supports disputes for nearly all types of medical bills, positioning it to help many of the 70 million Americans who receive problematic medical bills each year.

For too long, women have been forced to navigate a healthcare system that frequently leaves them with unfair bills, excessive charges, and financial stress. Patient Fairness provides a much-needed solution, giving women the power to demand fair treatment and protect themselves from predatory billing practices. In a system that often prioritizes profits over patient rights, tools like Patient Fairness are essential for ensuring that women are not left paying more than they should. With its easy-to-use platform, structured dispute process, and commitment to affordability, Patient Fairness is helping women across America reclaim control over their healthcare costs.

 

Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be considered financial, legal, or medical advice. Patient Fairness is not a law firm, financial advisory service, or medical provider and does not offer legal representation, financial counseling, or medical services. While Patient Fairness provides tools and guidance for disputing medical bills, results may vary based on individual circumstances, provider policies, and applicable laws. Users should consult with a qualified legal, financial, or medical professional before making decisions regarding their healthcare bills. Additionally, the statistics and studies cited in this article are based on publicly available data and are subject to change. Patient Fairness is an independent service and is not affiliated with any healthcare provider, insurance company, or government entity. By using Patient Fairness’s services, users acknowledge that they are solely responsible for their own financial and healthcare decisions.

Published by Tom W.

Turning Heartbreak into Hope: Tauni Maya’s Mission to Help Others Become Parents

By: Jay Feldman

All too often, the fertility struggles become a seemingly endless journey marked only by dashed hopes and heartbreak. As someone who has walked this lonely road, Tauni Maya launched Babies Made with Love to help people along the rocky and uphill path.

Maya is a dedicated fertility advocate and a devoted mother who has guided individuals and families through the complications and challenges caused by infertility for nearly 15 years. Her personal struggles along the path to parenthood enable her to serve them with both passion and compassion.

From Personal Journey to Public Advocate

Maya’s intimate connection with the challenges of infertility profoundly shapes her life mission. As a woman who experienced multiple miscarriages before ultimately becoming a mother, she understands the emotional turmoil that accompanies the quest for parenthood. She also identifies through her experience as a six-time egg donor.

Maya’s shared background with her clients fuels her empathy and drives her to ensure the people under her care do not feel isolated on their journeys. “Infertility often feels like a lonely and uncertain road,” she says. “I know firsthand the depths of that pain and the intensity of the dreams that accompany it. If you are among those struggling silently to build a family, my goal is to equip you with a roadmap filled with hope and support.”

Babies Made with Love: Guiding Parents with Compassion

Maya’s vision became a reality when she founded Babies Made with Love, a leading surrogacy and fertility consulting agency. Under her leadership as CEO, the agency supports intended parents navigating the intricate processes of surrogacy, egg donation, and assisted reproduction.

Honored as 2023’s Best Surrogacy Agency, Babies Made with Love sets itself apart with genuine compassion for every client who walks through the door. Maya’s team is dedicated to empowering individuals as they overcome the many hurdles between them and their dreams of parenthood.

Above all, Babies Made with Love stands behind its commitment to transparency, ethical practices, and high-quality matches. This way, the agency can ensure a seamless and positive experience for both intended parents and donors.

“We have the highest level of respect for every intended parent, surrogate, and donor we serve,” explains Maya. “By honoring all of our clients with a commitment to transparency and genuine care, we can match intended parents with the right surrogates and donors.”

Real Fertility Talk: Breaking Down Barriers

Maya’s tireless advocacy extends beyond her agency’s efforts. When she recognized the need for open, honest conversations about infertility, she established Real Fertility Talk. This educational platform and podcast break the silence around fertility struggles. Through blogs, podcasts, and social media, Real Fertility Talk provides expert insights, personal stories, and much-needed emotional support.

“Stigma is one of the biggest challenges people encounter during their fertility journey,” Maya observes. “Real Fertility Talk aims to break down barriers and create a community where people can share their experiences without fear or shame.”

By featuring expert advice and real stories from those who have walked similar paths, Real Fertility Talk offers a lifeline to individuals and couples feeling alone in their struggles. The educational platform has become a trusted source of information, empowerment, and support for many in the fertility community.

Baby Wish Foundation: Making Parenthood Accessible

Maya firmly believes that everyone deserves the chance to become a parent. It’s one reason why, as someone who backs her views with actions, she created the Baby Wish Foundation. This nonprofit organization is committed to helping individuals and families overcome the financial barriers associated with fertility treatments, surrogacy, and assisted reproduction. By providing grants and funding support, the Baby Wish Foundation brings hope and the possibility of parenthood to those for whom financial constraints present an otherwise insurmountable obstacle.

“As most people know, fertility treatments can be incredibly expensive,” notes Maya. “For many, the cost alone can be a huge barrier. The Baby Wish Foundation is about removing that barrier. We want to make parenthood a possibility for everyone.”

By advocating for greater accessibility to fertility treatments and providing financial support, the Baby Wish Foundation bridges the gap between dreams and reality for so many aspiring parents. Each grant awarded is a testament to Maya’s unwavering commitment to making parenthood accessible for all.

A Legacy of Love and Support

Maya’s comprehensive support system for those struggling with infertility redefines what it means to be a fertility advocate. Beyond simply creating families, her mission ensures that every individual’s journey is one of support, hope, and love. Her award-winning agency, media presence, and non-profit work provide countless individuals and families with the guidance they need.

Infertility often brings silence and sorrow, but Maya is determined to turn that heartbreak into hope, one success story at a time. “Every story of parenthood is filled with unique challenges and triumphs,” she concludes. “My goal is to be there for those navigating this journey. No one should walk this path alone. Let us provide you with the resources, support, and community you need to find hope and, ultimately, build your family.”

Disclaimer: The content provided in this article is for informational and inspirational purposes only. While it reflects the personal experiences and insights of Tauni Maya, the information shared does not constitute medical or legal advice. Each fertility journey is unique, and outcomes may vary. Individuals seeking assistance with fertility, surrogacy, or reproductive services should consult with licensed medical professionals, legal advisors, and fertility experts to discuss their specific needs and circumstances. The mention of any products, services, or organizations does not imply endorsement or guarantee results. The Baby Wish Foundation and Babies Made with Love are independent entities and may have different eligibility requirements, policies, and services.

Published by Tom W.

The Truth About Manifestation: It’s Not Magic—It’s a Mindset Shift

By: Meditating Human

First, it was “YOLO.” Next, it was doing things “for the plot.” Now, it’s “trust the process.” If you have heard any iteration of this message when things aren’t going your way, you likely know firsthand how frustrating it can be when spiritual advice is vague and seemingly out of control. 

The concept that you can simply “think happy thoughts” or “send out good vibes” and trust the universe to set things in place sounds nice…But for many, it simply doesn’t line up with reality. Manifestation is often misunderstood, written off as wishful thinking, or abandoned when results don’t show up overnight. But what if manifestation wasn’t about sitting, waiting, or wishing (Shout out–Jack Johnson)? That’s Tiffany Antoine’s approach through Meditating Human—stripping away the fluff and focusing on manifestation as an intentional, structured process. No blind faith required. 

Regardless of your perspective on energy, vibration, or the universe’s plan, manifestation is ultimately about clarity, alignment, and action. Whether viewed as a spiritual practice or a different approach to goal-setting, it can be a powerful way to focus on what matters most.

Why Manifestation Seems Unrealistic and How It Can Still Be Useful

If manifestation worked how people think, we’d all be stress-free millionaires. It falls flat for many because they only engage with half of the process. A person sets an intention like, “I want a better job,” “I want to feel more fulfilled,” or “I want financial freedom.” They visualize it, make a vision board, and maybe even recite affirmations. A few weeks later, life looks the same. Frustration sets in, and they give up, assuming manifestation is fake or something that just “doesn’t work” for them.

But the problem isn’t manifestation itself, it’s that it was only halfway done. The key isn’t just in wanting something. It’s in making daily choices that bring that desire to life.

Think of it as learning to swim. You can watch videos, visualize yourself gliding effortlessly through the water, and mentally prepare all you want—but nothing happens if you never get in the pool. Manifestation is the same way. It’s not just about setting an intention; it’s about getting in the water and learning how to move.

Making Manifestation Work in the Real World

Skeptics dismiss Manifestation because it’s often framed as something mystical rather than practical. But at its core, it’s a process anyone can use. The first step is clarity. Simply saying you want to be happy or earn more money is like saying you want “something good” to eat. It’s entirely subjective. 

Start by asking: What does that mean for you? What does that happiness look like? Is it more time with friends and family? More capacity for hobbies? Is financial success finally digging out of that hole of debt or fostering a thriving career? The more you reflect on your personal goals, the more transparent they can become, making it easier to take steps toward achieving them.

Next, it’s about being the person already having what you want. This doesn’t mean pretending or faking confidence; it means making fundamental shifts in thinking and behaving. If you want to be healthier, don’t wait until you’ve lost weight to start feeling good about yourself. You start making choices a healthy person would make today. If your goal is financial stability, you don’t wait for a better raise to manage your money. You take control of what you can now.

Manifestation is driven by action. A common misconception is that “alignment” means waiting for the ideal moment or feeling completely ready. In reality, progress happens through taking steps forward, even when uncertainty, discomfort, or delayed results occur. That’s what helps bring a vision to life.

But What About Real Life?

This is where many people feel stuck; they love the idea of manifestation but can’t figure out how to make it work while juggling work, family, and everyday responsibilities. The good news? It doesn’t require a complete life overhaul. It’s about tiny, intentional shifts. Five minutes of morning journaling can set the tone for a productive day. Catching and reframing negative self-talk can shift long-term patterns. One small, intentional action—sending an email, researching a course, making a phone call—can create a ripple effect that changes everything.

Meditating Human is designed to integrate spirituality into everyday life practically. Rather than being an extra task, manifestation can be a mindful approach to navigating life with greater awareness, purpose, and clarity.

Why Even Skeptics Can Benefit

The truth is, people already use manifestation; they just don’t call it that. Athletes visualize success before competing. Entrepreneurs plan their futures with precision. Even psychology backs it up—studies on neuroplasticity show that our thoughts and behaviors actively rewire our brains over time (Science of Learning Portal, 2019).

So whether you see manifestation as energy alignment or simply as a method of focused self-discipline, the process is the same. You identify what you want, align your mindset with that goal, and take consistent, meaningful action. It’s not about wishful thinking. It’s about deliberately creating your reality.

Shape Your Path

Manifestation isn’t reserved for the ultra-spiritual or those with unwavering faith. It’s a process of self-awareness, commitment, and action. And for those willing to put it into practice—not just in theory but in daily life—the results speak for themselves.

This isn’t about hoping the universe drops something in your lap. It’s about stepping forward, intentionally, toward the life you want. The small choices you make today create the foundation for the reality you step into tomorrow.

If you’re done waiting for change and ready to take control of your life, it’s time to move from wishful thinking to fundamental transformation. Manifestation isn’t about waiting—it’s about becoming. Visit Meditating Human and start taking steps to bring your vision to life.

Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended as psychological, financial, or professional advice. Individual results may vary, and manifestation should be approached as a mindset and action-based process rather than a guaranteed outcome. Always consult with a qualified professional for guidance tailored to your specific circumstances.

Published by Anne C.

The Power of Choosing Joy

Life’s challenges often bring exhaustion, pain, and moments of overwhelming doubt. Accepting hardship as an unavoidable part of the journey can seem more manageable. However, transformation becomes possible when resilience takes the lead. Joy Through the Journey, written by Amberly Lago, explores this shift, offering a path toward rediscovering fulfillment even in the face of adversity.

After enduring 34 surgeries, navigating chronic pain, and building a thriving business, the weight of burnout became undeniable. The body and mind had reached a breaking point, signaling a need for change. In those moments, an essential realization surfaced—pain may be inevitable, but suffering does not have to be permanent. This turning point became the foundation for the insights shared throughout Lago’s book.

By introducing the P.A.C.E.R. Method, this guide presents an actionable framework designed to cultivate joy. These steps provide a structured approach to shifting mindset, embracing resilience, and creating a purposeful life.

Finding Strength in Vulnerability

Strength is often perceived as the ability to endure without faltering, yet true resilience lies in embracing vulnerability. Throughout Joy Through the Journey, Amberly Lago emphasizes the importance of sharing struggles. Rather than being hidden away, moments of hardship serve as opportunities for connection and growth.

Vulnerability is frequently misunderstood as a weakness. However, it fosters the kind of authenticity that strengthens relationships and builds communities of support. The stories shared highlight the power of openness, showing that struggles do not define a person but rather shape the path forward. Recognizing and embracing challenges allows for discovering inner strength that might remain hidden.

Practical tools are woven throughout these pages to help navigate difficulties with grace. By reframing experiences and acknowledging the value of each challenge, a greater sense of purpose emerges. Through this lens, joy becomes a destination and an active daily choice.

Tools for Transformative Change

Beyond inspiration, Joy Through the Journey provides practical steps for shifting perspective and creating lasting change. One of the core principles explored is the power of gratitude. Focusing on what exists rather than what is lacking creates space for positivity to flourish. Simple practices, such as journaling moments of appreciation or reflecting on small victories, contribute to an overall shift in outlook.

Setting intentions serves as another key component. A clear vision provides direction, making aligning actions with personal values easier. The path forward becomes clearer when decisions stem from intention rather than reaction. Purposeful action demonstrates how small, consistent choices lead to meaningful transformation over time.

Self-compassion also plays a crucial role in this journey. Learning to navigate setbacks with kindness fosters resilience. Instead of self-criticism, adopting a mindset of patience and understanding allows for progress without the weight of unnecessary guilt. Integrating these tools into daily life may help strengthen the foundation for long-term joy.

Creating Lasting Connections

The journey toward joy does not happen in isolation. Relationships and community serve as essential pillars of resilience. Joy Through the Journey underscores the importance of meaningful connections and their role in overcoming adversity.

Through her Inspired Living with Amberly Lago, LLC business, Amberly Lago highlights the significance of building strong support networks. A strong support system encourages during difficult times and amplifies moments of happiness. Whether through family, friends, or communities built around shared experiences, these bonds offer a reminder that challenges do not have to be faced alone. Strategies for fostering deeper relationships emphasize the value of authenticity and mutual support.

Meaningful connections do not require an extensive network. A few supportive individuals can provide the strength to navigate life’s challenges. Simple gestures—expressing appreciation, reaching out, and actively engaging in relationships—create an environment where joy can thrive. Through shared experiences, the weight of struggles lessens, and the journey becomes collective resilience.

A Journey Toward Lasting Joy

Joy Through the Journey extends an invitation to explore a new perspective on resilience, fulfillment, and the pursuit of joy. Through personal experiences, actionable strategies, and a heartfelt approach, Amberly Lago provides a guide for those seeking a renewed sense of purpose. Through her work with Inspired Living with Amberly Lago, LLC, she inspires others to embrace mindset shifts, cultivate gratitude, and foster meaningful connections.

The opportunity to embark on this journey exists now. Through the insights shared in Joy Through the Journey, the possibility of a life defined by resilience and fulfillment becomes more than an idea—it becomes an achievable reality.


Published by Anne C.

Brit Costa on the Passionate Pioneer: Finding Purpose & Empowerment in Loss

By: Matt Fernandez

“I always tell my team; we are here to lift each other. That’s the foundation of everything we do.”

Against all odds, Brit Costa has transformed personal tragedy into a purpose-driven advocacy. As the founder of Macromed Spa and The Princeton Co., Brit has made it her mission to help others. 

Her organizations are more than just businesses — they are communities for healing, growth, and empowerment. 

In a recent interview on The Passionate Pioneer podcast with Beth Taylor, Brit shared her resilience journey, leadership philosophy, and commitment to creating a culture of giving.

Creating a Business Rooted in Purpose

Brit’s journey to entrepreneurship was not conventional. Before launching Macromed Spa, she faced a devastating personal loss. She and her husband struggled with infertility before turning to IVF, which resulted in the pregnancy of identical twins. 

But just three weeks before their due date, tragedy struck. 

The twins developed twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome, a preventable condition that ultimately took their lives.

“After that loss, I didn’t know how to move forward,” Brit shared. “But my husband kept telling me, ‘Stay toward the light.’”

Rather than being consumed by grief, Brit channeled her pain into building something meaningful. She launched The Princeton Co., named after her sons, Princeton and Conrad. It started as a sunless tanning studio and included wellness and aesthetics services.

Leading with Heart and Integrity

Brit rejects the traditional business mindset that prioritizes profits over people. With a team of 32, she helps every employee feel valued.

“I don’t see my team as numbers,” Brit said. “If I can break even financially but still make sure my people feel seen and supported, I consider that a success.”

Her approach to leadership emphasizes respect, care, and fairness. She aims to create an environment where employees and clients feel valued. Rather than prioritizing sales, her team takes a mindful approach to aesthetics, considering safety and necessity before recommending treatments.

“If someone comes in asking for a procedure that isn’t right for them, we say no,” Brit explained. “It’s not just cosmetic—it’s medical. And we have to be responsible.”

Breaking the Stigma Around Beauty and Wellness

Macromed Spa aims to normalize medical aesthetics and redefine beauty treatments as part of self-care. Brit understands that some people hesitate to explore these services due to misconceptions.

“There’s a stigma around aesthetics,” she said. “People assume you’ll look unnatural or overdone. However, these treatments can be done subtly to enhance confidence. It’s no different than coloring your hair.”

Her philosophy centers on aging gracefully and empowering clients with knowledge. Unlike clinics that push excessive treatments, Brit’s approach prioritizes balance, integrity, and individual needs.

A Legacy of Strength and Compassion

Brit’s businesses are not just about beauty but resilience, empowerment, and community. She pours the love she could not give to her twins into her team, her clients, and the causes she supports.

She remains committed to advocating for change. Drawing from a personal experience with privacy concerns, she collaborated with attorney Gloria Allred to support efforts for stronger legal protections. She has also shared her perspective on gaps in medical care and prenatal rights, speaking from her own experiences.

“I never planned to become an advocate,” Brit said. “But when I see a flaw in the system, I can’t ignore it.”

Her story is a reminder that adversity does not define a person—how they respond to it does. Brit Costa has turned her pain into purpose through her businesses and advocacy, proving that even the darkest moments can lead to something meaningful.

Published by Drake M.