By: Erica Reyes

In a recent episode of the Coming Out + Beyond podcast, psychotherapist, author, and mental health advocate Ann Russo spoke candidly about her journey, her work, and her evolving belief system as a prominent voice for sexual positivity.  

With over two decades of experience, Russo is known for her commitment to providing culturally sensitive mental health services to queer populations and other underserved communities. During her conversation with host Anne-Marie Zanzal, she shared insights into her approach to therapy and the impact of her background in theology on her current work.

A Childhood Marked by Queer Identity and Religious Tension

Ann Russo’s journey into becoming a psychotherapist and advocate for marginalized communities is deeply rooted in her own experiences growing up with a gay parent during the 1980s. The pain and challenges faced by her family during the AIDS epidemic, compounded by the rise of the religious right, left an impression on Russo. 

Despite growing up in a conservative environment, her childhood was filled with love and acceptance within her household, which starkly contrasted with the external world’s hostility.

“My upbringing taught me to love and accept people as individuals,” Russo shared. “In our household, we were taught to see beyond gender, skin color, and societal norms. This openness has significantly influenced my work today, especially in providing support to those who feel marginalized or oppressed.”

The Intersection of Queerness and Christianity

A significant portion of the podcast focused on Russo’s work with queer liberation theology, an area where she has combined her expertise in psychotherapy with her background in theology. She explained that queer liberation theology stems from the broader concept of liberation theology, which views Christ as a liberator of the marginalized. 

Russo adapts this idea to the queer community, emphasizing that Christ’s teachings can serve as a source of empowerment for queer individuals.

“I see Christ as the liberator of the queer community,” Russo explained. “By understanding biblical stories and religious traditions through this lens, queer individuals can find a way to reconcile their faith with their identity, leading to a healthier and more empowered relationship with their spirituality.”

Russo also shared her belief system, which she described as a work in progress. Despite her extensive religious studies, including a master’s degree in theology, Russo has arrived at a place where she is comfortable with uncertainty in her faith. 

“I don’t have all the answers, and I’m okay with that,” she says, further stating she firmly believes “in something greater than myself, and I’m on a journey to connect with whatever that might be.”

Revisiting Women in the Bible: Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene

Russo’s deep dive into religious studies during her seminary time led her to explore the roles of women in the Bible, particularly figures like the Virgin Mary and Mary Magdalene. In the podcast, she discussed a paper she wrote in seminary that examined these women from a feminist perspective. 

Russo highlighted how traditional interpretations of these figures have often minimized their roles and contributions, reducing them to archetypes like the virgin, the harlot, or the sinful Eve.

“I found it fascinating how these archetypes have been used to shape the perception of women in Christianity,” Russo noted. “The Virgin Mary is often venerated for her purity, while Mary Magdalene’s relationship with Jesus is frequently misinterpreted or downplayed. It’s essential to revisit these stories and understand their significance beyond the traditional narratives.”

Empowering Women and the Impact of Purity Culture

In her upcoming book, Her Own Terms: Navigating the Landscape of Modern Female Sexuality, Russo tackles the complexities of female sexuality, drawing on her therapist experience and understanding of religious and societal influences. 

The book combines cognitive behavioral therapy, sex-positive attitudes, and psychodynamic insights to help women explore and redefine their sexuality on their own terms.

Russo also addressed the detrimental effects of purity culture, which has long imposed unrealistic and harmful standards on both men and women. 

“Purity culture has created unattainable ideals around sex and relationships, leading to confusion, shame, and a lack of healthy sexual expression,” she said. “My goal is to help women break free from these toxic messages and embrace a more authentic and fulfilling understanding of their sexuality.”

A Commitment to Advocacy and Education

Throughout the podcast, Russo emphasized her dedication to creating safe and supportive spaces for marginalized communities. Through her online psychotherapy practice and her educational initiatives for mental health professionals, she continues to advocate for the rights and well-being of queer individuals and other underserved populations. Her work is not just about providing therapy but empowering individuals to reclaim their narratives and live authentically.

In a world where religion and queerness are often seen as incompatible, Ann Russo is a beacon of hope, offering a path to reconciliation and empowerment for those navigating the complex intersection of these identities. You can catch her full episode on the Coming Out + Beyond podcast here or sign up for her mailing list here. 

Published by: Holy Minoza