Women's Journal

Shabana Markar: From Family Lessons of Hunger to a Global Mission of Healing

By: Elowen Gray

Food carries stories. For some, it is a memory of abundance, a grandmother’s kitchen filled with spices and laughter. For others, it is the reminder of scarcity—of longing and hunger. Shabana Ibrahim-Rehana Markar grew up listening to her father recall his childhood in Mumbai, where his mother, after being widowed, struggled to feed her ten children. These stories, told with honesty and pain, remained with Shabana. They became the foundation of her vision: to create a life where food is not only sustenance but also a bridge to compassion.

Her parents’ sacrifices as first-generation immigrants in America deepened this calling. They labored to provide her and her brother with opportunities they themselves had never known. From them, she learned that “to feed the belly and to feed the soul are two different things.” This distinction has become her philosophy, one she has carried into her businesses, nonprofit work, and creative projects.

The Mercy Brands: Nourishment with Intention

Shabana is the CEO of two restaurants: Mercy Mediterranean and Luna’s Halal Taqueria. These are not ordinary brands. They are conceived as spaces where healthy, affordable meals are offered with dignity. For her, speed does not mean compromise. Each dish is crafted with care, serving as an invitation to eat well without sacrificing quality of service.

The intention behind these restaurants is clear: they are businesses built not solely for profit but to uplift. In an industry often dominated by efficiency and margins, Shabana insists on weaving compassion into the very structure of her enterprises. Customers are not only consumers; they are participants in a larger movement captured by her motto, “spreading mercy with every bite!”

Miracles 4 Mercy: Extending Food into Action

Beyond the restaurants, Shabana founded Miracles 4 Mercy, a nonprofit dedicated to addressing global suffering. Proceeds from her food ventures are redirected into projects that target literacy support, improved water infrastructure, and programs aimed at reducing homelessness and human trafficking.

In practice, this means a potential meal purchased in Los Angeles may translate into a clean water well abroad, or into shelter for someone without a home. The circle of empathy is thus widened. A customer can see the direct impacts updated on her website. She ensures that the chain of nourishment extends beyond geographical and cultural borders. Food, in her model, is never just about the individual—it is about the collective.

A Voice Through The Mercy Queen

Shabana’s podcast, The Mercy Queen, embodies the same ethos but through words rather than food. The show is dedicated to fostering empathy and dialogue, urging listeners to embrace difference rather than fear it. “Every soul desires to be seen, heard, valued, and appreciated.”

Episodes tackle the human need for mutual respect and a deeper understanding, reminding audiences that empathy is not an abstract concept but needs to be a daily practice. Just as her restaurants offer nourishment to the body, her podcast provides nourishment to the mind. Both are different expressions of the same commitment: “spreading mercy through empathy and light.”

Redefining Wealth and Power

Shabana’s philosophy challenges conventional notions of success. To her, wealth is not measured by the size of a bank account, but by the legacy one leaves in uplifting others. Power is not about status but about its execution for the greater good. Happiness, similarly, is not bound to material possessions but to purpose.

This perspective did not come easily. She acknowledges that her path was met with—even resistance—from those closest to her. Yet she persisted, fueled by self-compassion and the willingness to pursue her dream despite setbacks. For Shabana, entrepreneurship is not a pursuit of mere greed, but an act of courage on behalf of those who cannot afford to take such risks.

Lessons in Resilience

The loss of her father in December 2024 has marked her recent journey with grief. Yet, even in mourning, Shabana has found a way to transform sorrow into service. She reminds herself daily that it is “okay not to be okay.” This acceptance is not a weakness, but a strength—a recognition that healing is a process and that compassion must begin with oneself.

Her story offers a lesson for others: do not let fear of failure or the discouragement of others silence your vision. She insists that in America, with hard work and conviction, “anyone can be or do anything if you dare to dream and execute.” For her, mistakes are not to be avoided but embraced as part of the process of growth.

Help Her Achieve: Support (Y)our Mercy Mission

Shabana’s vision is expansive. In the next five years, she hopes to grow her restaurants across Northern and Southern California, with the ambition of building a global franchise that embodies a mercy mission. She wants her brand to be recognized not just as a provider of food but as a movement—a model of how business and empathy can coexist.

Her upcoming self-help book, Love Me First, Love Me Last, reflects her personal commitment to this mission. In it, she shares her journey toward self-love after enduring severe childhood bullying. Alongside the book, she is pursuing certification as a life coach, extending her work of healing into the realm of personal transformation.

These initiatives—restaurants, nonprofit work, podcast, writing, and coaching—are not isolated projects. They are interconnected threads, each reinforcing her belief that food, dialogue, and compassion can address human suffering in practical, everyday ways.

A Theology, A Non-Political Way of Healing

At its core, Shabana’s work insists on seeing food not only as commerce but as a theological offering for healing. To feed another is to acknowledge their dignity. To build businesses that serve communities is to resist the narrative that profit must come before people. And to share her father’s story of hunger is to remind us that empathy can be inspired by memories.

Her journey embodies a proposition: that fast food can be infused with mercy, that a shawarma can help fund literacy, and that a falafel can be part of a global movement against suffering. These ideas are not fanciful—they are already being practiced in her daily work.

Through Mercy Mediterranean, Luna’s Halal Taqueria, and Miracles 4 Mercy, Shabana is creating a template for a different kind of entrepreneurship—one that insists food can be both sustenance and empathy, both business and mercy, and ultimately, a force for change.

Building Peace Through Personal Transformation: Maya’s Bold Vision for a Better World

Peace is often spoken of as a political ambition, negotiated in conference halls or brokered in diplomatic circles. Yet, history repeatedly demonstrates that lasting peace cannot be signed into existence by ministers alone. True harmony must be cultivated within individuals before it can extend to families, communities, and nations. This belief lies at the heart of Maya’s work. A mother of four from Finland, Maya has dedicated her life to spirituality, personal development, and the bold conviction that world peace begins at the personal level.

Through her journey, she has distilled her message into what she calls her 12 Bold Statements, guiding principles she believes can transform not only individual lives but the global community. Her mission is clear: if individuals learn to nurture peace within themselves, humanity as a whole will move closer to unity, understanding, and compassion.

The Roots of Inner Peace

Maya’s starting point is simple yet profound—peace originates within. A person who feels balanced, valued, and connected to their own essence is less likely to harm others or perpetuate conflict. The external world, she explains, reflects the inner world. When individuals are consumed by self-doubt, anger, or fear, those emotions ripple outward, shaping relationships, communities, and even entire nations. Conversely, when individuals cultivate love, forgiveness, and self-respect, they create a foundation for peace that extends far beyond themselves.

Her teaching emphasizes that this inner peace cannot be imposed by external authority. It must be cultivated individually, through self-awareness, healing, and spiritual connection. As she puts it:

“True Freedom is to live the life following the guidance and the light of your own eternal soul.”

These words underscore her belief that listening to inner guidance is not a luxury, but a necessity for both personal and collective well-being.

The Birth of the Bold Statements

Maya describes her Bold Statements as messages that flowed through her rather than ideas she consciously invented. The first came unexpectedly in April 2022. She shared it publicly, and over the following year, 11 more arrived, forming a complete vision for personal and societal transformation.

The use of the word “bold” reflects the courage required to share such messages openly. In a world often dominated by material achievements, competition, and conflict, advocating for peace through personal transformation may seem unconventional. Yet Maya insists that these timeless truths are urgently needed today.

The statements offer a practical roadmap for change, addressing key aspects of human experience: listening, forgiveness, peace, authenticity, purpose, roots, respect, and love. Together, they form a holistic vision for rebuilding the human community on a foundation of compassion and understanding.

The 12 Bold Statements and Their Meaning

  • By Listening We Will Change the World: Listening is not only about others, but about reconnecting with intuition and inner guidance. Disconnection from the self leads to confusion and chaos, while true listening fosters clarity and healing.
  • By Forgiveness We Will Change the World: Forgiveness, beginning with oneself, is essential to healing pain and dismantling cycles of guilt and resentment. It requires humility and vulnerability, but it restores dignity to human relationships.
  • By Having Deep Inner Peace We Will Change the World: Peace is not the absence of noise but the cultivation of calm within. This inner stillness radiates outward, reducing conflict in every sphere of life.
  • By Being Open-Minded and Accepting Each Other Without Labels We Will Change the World: Judgment and categorization divide humanity. Acceptance builds bridges where walls once stood.
  • By Being Authentic and Truthful We Will Change the World: Honesty and self-expression foster trust and eliminate the need for façades that erode connection.
  • By Finding Our Purpose We Will Change the World: Purpose gives meaning to life and aligns individuals with a higher calling, channeling their energy toward constructive ends.
  • By Connecting With Our Roots and Unique Culture We Will Change the World: Cultural identity is not a barrier, but a gift. Embracing heritage fosters respect for diversity while grounding individuals in belonging.
  • By Respecting Mothers We Will Change the World: Honoring motherhood affirms the source of life and recognizes the critical role of nurturing in human development.
  • By Truly Listening to Children We Will Change the World: Children carry wisdom and authenticity often overlooked. When their voices are valued, society moves closer to equity and compassion.
  • By Meeting Human Beings at Their Individual Level We Will Change the World: Every person deserves recognition as a unique soul rather than a stereotype or statistic.
  • By Connecting to Our Soul We Will Change the World: Spiritual connection anchors humanity in values that transcend materialism and ego.
  • By Self-Love We Will Change the World: Maya identifies self-love as the most essential principle. Without it, individuals seek validation in harmful ways, leading to conflict and suffering. With it, they radiate compassion effortlessly.

A Call for Personal Responsibility

Maya’s vision does not shift the responsibility for peace onto governments, institutions, or distant leaders. Instead, it asks each individual to take responsibility for their own growth and healing. Conflict, she explains, often arises when people fail to understand the pain of others or when they insist on being absolutely right. Empathy, humility, and willingness to serve others are far more powerful than the pursuit of legacy or glory.

Her perspective is both deeply personal and universally relevant. As she notes:

“When we fail to understand the pain behind the rebelling and angry human being, we have failed as humanity.”

By encouraging people to see one another with compassion, Maya envisions a future where global peace emerges naturally from countless acts of individual transformation.

The Path Forward

The journey to peace is neither quick nor easy. It demands courage to face personal wounds, honesty to live authentically, and patience to forgive. Yet Maya’s Bold Statements remind us that change is possible and that transformation begins within.

Her teachings echo a timeless truth: the world is a reflection of the inner state of its people. When individuals cultivate love, respect, and peace within themselves, they become catalysts for a more compassionate, harmonious world.

Maya’s vision, grounded in spirituality and personal development, is not a utopian dream but a practical invitation. It challenges each person to take the first step toward a more peaceful world—not by waiting for leaders to act, but by embodying peace in daily life.

If humanity is to move beyond division and conflict, it must start where Maya believes it always has: within the heart of every individual.